Cupid Hit the Wrong Target???

I was on facebook yesterday like any other day and came across a status update from my friend that read along the lines of why do more people break up around Valentine day these days. This got me thinking....... I am still thinking, I have not come up with a conclusion yet but I did come up with a few theories.

Theories:

1. It is believed that cupid always "hits" people with his arrow and so they fall in love. We have seen this in Tom & Jerry, Scooby Doo and all the chick flicks we watch. What got me thinking is, did cupid hit these people by sheer pull of these people's emotions at that particular time or did he consider the future as well? Because I do not think he did, consider the future, that is! I mean if he did indeed look at the future than he wouldve definately known that these people will argue, fight and relationships will break, right???
2. Does cupid really "hit" you with an arrow and spread love in your system for the other person? I am thinking that if this is the case than really its cupid's love for that person that's in your system, right? Otherwise if these feelings were really yours then why do people argue, fight and relationships break???
3. If you really want this person then why do we always have to bring cupid  (or the universe or some other power in the surroundings) into this equation??
4. Is it LOVE or is it just LUST???
5. If its LOVE then why do people argue and fight all the time? What happened to " I will forever hold your hand and never raise an eyebrow forget accusations, questions or require answers from you?" Because we are both going to be honest, communicate with one another and more so trust one another.
6. If it is LUST then what happened to we will just tear each other's clothes while tripping over each others toes, scatter buttons and clothings all over the floor, push one another on the wall, break a table lamp and maybe that mug from the ex, pull at each others hair, keep the neighbours awake and live for that moment without complicating things?

You are probably wondering why am I asking all these questions right?

The thing is that I have come to realise that so many relationships start with a friends or a relatives push (cupids) with them saying "but oh, look, you guys look so cute together" or "really if I were you, I will never let her/him get away". And those relationships that started out without the cupids help were based on our looks, our phisique and even our money. All of which are not good foundations for a good relationship! Than again what is a good foundation for a relationship? And when they do start on a good foundation we find ourselves facing other challenges such as misunderstandings, third parties and simple hollywood (disney) stories that never come true! I mean not getting flowers from your boyfriend becomes an issue because thats not the "norm" or not getting a text from your girlfriend every 10mins about where she is and what she is doing is not an accepted thing or that what you consider to be important is not for the other person or that you sacrifise so much and the other person does not appreciate or that you think they dont appreciate........... and the list is endless!!!

Which brings me to ask, did cupid hit the wrong target?? Because if he had hit the right target than would this still happen?

Someone anyone am I making sense???? What I am probably asking is why are people in the relationship that they are? Or more like, what makes them stay in these relationships? I am probably asking all these questions because it seems like love is in the air all of a sudden now that Valentine's day, I am interested in knowing why are you with the person that you are with this Valentine day??!!!

Nasreen

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